38 Years, that’s how long I have been Alive so far! It’s also the amount of time I have had to acquire knowledge, experience and perspective in this Crazy world we live in today.
Throughout those 38 years, I’ve noticed a pattern within myself. Each person that has either had the opportunity or taken the time to get to know me, all say the same thing: “You just don’t follow through Thomas!” “You’re absolutely great at starting things; powerful, energetic, inspiring but once you get further along into it you lose momentum & drive. Your motivation begins to dwindle and die off, soon to be replaced by something new and exciting!”
My girlfriend pointed out something very interesting to me today while we discussed this topic. She stated that my persona denotes a playful person, someone who enjoys having fun. Like a kid that never grew up! She said the best job for you is something you truly enjoy doing, every time!
It’s funny when she said that cause it was almost like a “Duh Huh” moment! Something I call a “Brick on a String” moment, cause it’s like getting hit in the head by a Brick on a String, Pow..!!! I realized just how right she was, I only really have followed through with things that were amusing & entertaining.
Now, let me stop you dead in your tracks if you think I’m saying I only want to play. That’s not true! The true meaning behind all of this is that when you (Really) enjoy what your doing and you can make a living doing it, that’s true Success. Because it’s not work, not really! You get up each day with excitement, motivation, drive and ideas on what to do next!
So, the next Big question is: How do you determine what your supposed “Dream Job” is? Hummm, well that just might be the Muti-Million Dollar question! I guess the answer lies in your ability to adapt to Fear! Yes, I said that nasty four letter word: FEAR. From a psychological perspective, Fear has only two effect on us: It either Motivates or Immobilizes! The choice lies in us all. How we choose to react to Fear can either Motivate you to do something you’ve never done before or it can completely Immobilize you, stopping you dead in your Tracks!
The path to finding your “Dream Job” is to learn how to coupe with Fear! Fear stops you from taking Risk in your life and without Risk, you can never find your way. “The bigger the Risk, the bigger the Reward”, remember that saying? How big a Risk are you willing to take in order to find your way to your “Dream Job” ? Playing it safe and skating by doing just enough to stay afloat will not lead you to your final destination!
I’m curious, have you asked yourself the question yet while reading so far? You know, “So Thomas, have you found your Dream Job?” Well, sadly, no I have not! The reason is the same as what I have stated in this Blog. I have yet to change my reaction to Fear! I let Fear Immobilize me instead of Motivating me to go out there and actively search for My “Dream Job”
Does it end here? Am I doomed to drift along, unsatisfied with my life and just “get by”? The answer is hugely NO! All I have to do is take a chance and Risk it! Focus on the talents and strengths I have and move forward. Today very well could be the First day of the rest of my Life!
If you enjoyed reading this and are willing to share. Tell me what your Honest “Dream Job” would be! What would you Love to do everyday?
Peace, Love and Happiness
Thomas Cunningham










































